Friday, October 29, 2010

Payday Friday is Dessert Day

After the drama I had last week, the dust has finally settled. I continued with my daily routines, where I experience different writing challenges. But hey I'm not complaining because at the end of the day, I feel tired but not dead exhausted. I most especially look forward to seeing Marvin. As much as possible, we go home together after work. He works on Saturdays, making weekends pretty much irrelevant. :( So we can be able to extend our bonding time, we eat dinner together. It is costly but we take delight in eating together. This is the time when we talk a lot, about the future as well as nonsense stuff. Of course, we make sure to find the cheaper places. Restaurant/eatery hunting is part of the fun.

What makes today different is that it's a beginning of the three-day weekend plus it's a payday! Yeah! The boyf and I were on the same page about having dessert at Dessert Factory (no pun intended!). We went to Ayala and had a sumptuous sizzling dinner at Sizzling Chef. I had a serving of squid, which I really loved, with java rice that wasn't any different than regular except for its orange coloring.


Our final and most-awaited stop was dessert. Everybody knows I'm the dessert monster and I think I'm rubbing it off to Marvin. He had blue berry cheesecake and I ordered vanilla with mango ice cream cake. Since we were still hungry, we ordered Dessert Factory's chili con carne fries with cheese! It was definitely better (and more expensive) than dinner. Well, we didn't really mind because everything was heavenly.




Nobody can ruin my mood today. I am in seventh heaven... especially my stomach and heart :) Thank You, my panggusan. hehe

Photos taken with my Sony Ericsson k800i.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Quite a Scare

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To say that this week is crazy is an understatement. Something really big happened. Part of me wanted to share it with the world, but it was a real can of worms. I have to admit I was depressed. It was difficult to take the news in.It caught me off guard but I never felt scared. Instead of being afraid, I was sad and hurt.

I cried my eyes out. I did a lot of reflection. I realized that if it really was a doom and gloom, I had no control. The concern from the people I love was overwhelming. I guess you really know your true friends in times like this. I thank all of them for reaching out. After that, I honestly got over it. I was able to smile and laugh again. I was able to talk about it without shedding tears.

As oblivious as I was when I got that terrible news, suddenly there was a solution. It made me think, what was that scare all about? Was my faith tested?

In spite of it all, I thank you Lord.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

10-10-10

I received a few text messages today greeting me a happy 10-10-10. What significant thing did I do on October 10, 2010? hmmmm, nothing! hahaha

The date sounds amazing and all, and how many times does 10-10-10 come in one's lifetime? To be honest, I pretty much don't care. VECO didn't seem to give a damn as well. In fact, it went on with its inconsiderate power outage. Since the boyf had band practice,I just stayed home today. I slept and ate the entire day.

Cindy was the only spice during my boring 10-10-10. Even if there was a power outage, we brought her to church. Our humble church didn't have a generator but the darkness didn't stop our favorite (not!) priest from yaking! Bummer! Sorry for being mean. But really, that priest's homily lasts for an hour. We did not mind him tonight because Cindy was such was a darling. She did not give us a hard time.







10-10-10 is history! :)

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Another Turn on Dog Cruelty: an Appeal to Dog Owners

A dog in our neighborhood died today.  I wrote this article last May and now I am posting this in her memory.

I truly believe dogs are human babies trapped in cute four-legged furry bodies. Based on my experience from years of having pooches around, they have human-like characteristics such as intelligence, sweetness and loyalty to name a few. But why do others choose to torture them? 

Animal cruelty is usually associated with the physical blows like directly hitting. Other physical forms of animal torture include dog fighting, hunting of confined animals for sports, circus practices and laboratory experimentations. One type of cruelty we often witness but overlook is the way unfit owners neglect and abandon their pets. We consciously or unconsciously believe it’s nothing compared to the ones I mentioned above. Well, I beg to differ. You’ll know why.

It really pains me to see stray dogs scavenging for food, home and love. People tend to be scared of them, as they are called asong kalye or askal, because they look dirty, smelly and vicious. Some would automatically assume that they bite. I really couldn’t blame them because realistically, you couldn’t just offer your hand to a random askal. Dogs, unlike their wolf ancestors, are supposed to be domesticated and they should have a family to be taken care of and to take care as well. Yes, dogs in return offer their masters protection, love and loyalty. Since they are left in the wild, expect them to have (some) instincts of animals in the wild. Negligence and abandonment are not usually categorized by others as cruelty since it just seems mild. There is nothing mild about the daily search for food where your enemies consist of people and dogs. Looking for even a decent shade against the heat of the sun and pouring rain is difficult. We complain about sweating too much because of El NiƱo, ignoring homeless dogs who pant so much because they can’t sweat You may be wondering why this is such a big deal for me. You see, as an owner of four dogs, I am so bothered to see a lot of stray dogs everywhere especially here in our community. Where do they all come from? I mean, do they just suddenly appear out of nowhere?

There are so many reasons why I hate our new neighbors. They have these annoying spoiled boys who keep on shouting and crying so early in the morning. Honestly, you get used to them eventually so I forgive them for that. There is, however, another reason why I blow a fuse at the mere sight of them. You couldn’t really call them responsible pet owners. They have this cute and active mongrel that they refuse to take care. The dog would constantly visit us in our house and we would let her eat and drink every now and then. She (yes! the dog is a she) would sometimes sleep outside our house as if we were her owners. When we go out, she would follow us until we ride the car or tricycle and when we return, she would happily greet us.

We have come to love this dog I call Baby. I know it’s such an uncreative dog name but the first time I called her this, she responded by wagging her tail and coming to me. There are times when we don’t see Baby but she would come back eventually. There was an instance though that we got so worried because we never saw her for weeks. We really thought she was dead. When I finally got to see Baby again, my heart was broken. I hardly recognized her because of hair loss brought by skin disease, with so many wounds and scabs. I think Baby had mange, a skin disease caused by parasitic mites. Not only was she different physically, she was aloof and the luster in her eyes was gone. When I would call her, she would runaway. I blame our neighbors for this. Was it really hard to provide food, drink and shelter to one dog? We have four dogs and it’s not really a burden. It is sometimes tiring but it’s okay because we love them. If the owners really don’t have time to prepare food, is it such a devil of a job to give the dog leftovers? Leftovers aren’t the best food option but they are better than trash. Would it kill them if you call your dog to go inside the gate? I don’t think so.



I was lucky enough to have taken a picture of Baby when she was still healthy and pretty. This was taken last year when she confidently got inside our house. I took another photo of how she looked before she died. I changed my mind about posting it here because the photo really looks disturbing.

If I may be idealistic, I would adopt Baby and all the stray dogs but realistically speaking, I don’t have the time and money for all of them. I am doing my part by sharing this information through my blog. I am appealing to those who are reading this. Please take care of your dogs, bred or mutts alike. If you have dogs that are outside your house and you think it’s okay… No, it’s not okay. Show some love by letting them in and saving them from diseases. Take time to bond with them and you will realize the joy they bring. Trust me! You’re really missing out on a lot of things.

It broke my heart when I found out Baby died today. She was found under our car parked outside. I didn’t look at her because I knew I would really weep. R.I.P. Baby. I know you’re in dog heaven right now.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

You've Got to Love Everything Cebu


My job entails a lot of writing that personal blogging isn’t much of a priority. Since I’m already a mouse potato, I don't have enough strength to blog after work anymore. I think my brain shuts down together with my office computer. But I promised myself that I would never abandon my blog. Not anymore. As timely as it is, this blog post has a triple purpose: to increase my blog entries, to tell you more about my job and to make an appeal. You’ll find out more below.

I really don’t have anything to complain about my job. I love it! Until now I still can’t believe I’m being paid to write. What’s great about it is I get to do lifestyle writing. It really feels like writing for my own blog, except that I don’t write it in first grammatical person. There aren’t I’s so it still has a journalistic approach.

I write for different sites and I think the best site that I am writing for is http;/www.everythingcebu.com. The web address says it all! I get to write about anything pertaining to Cebu. I was born in Manila, the hometown of my dad while my mom is from Negros so I’m not Cebuano/a by blood. I am proud of my roots but Cebu is my home and I have come to embrace everything about it. I am a Cebuana by heart. So this writing assignment is something that I look forward to. In Everything Cebu, I can write about Cebu’s scrumptious food, interesting people, breathtaking sites, unique music scene, upcoming events… you name it!

I know it sounds too easy but really, thinking of a topic for my next article isn’t a piece of cake. Looking for something interesting eats up a lot of my time. The real purpose of this blog entry is to appeal to all Cebuanos. Do you know anyone or anything that deserves to be featured on our site? If you do, please email me the details at niclorenzana@yahoo.com or message me in http;//www.facebook.com/neekul. Upcoming big or small events will also be appreciated. Please provide sufficient details for comprehensive articles. It’s like an exchange-deal. You give me something to write about, I offer you exposure. Yeah!

Take time to visit http://www.everythingcebu.com If you love Cebu, you’ll enjoy this site!

Please support other sites I contribute to:

http;//tawnylao.com – all about Hollywood
http://burtlao.com – all about outsourcing

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Friday, September 10, 2010

After three days of work... I'm staying!


It's only been three days; too soon to make a conclusion. But these first days have been the complete opposite of the last one. There I felt like a useless freak. Here I feel valued and trusted. When there I felt controlled, here I feel in control of myself. There is not a single time I felt out of place. No judging eyes. No cold shoulders.

I'm not a little girl anymore who needs to be checked up on every darn minute. Here, I am left alone to do my thing. I have all the freedom to express myself, to show what I've got. I don't count the minutes until I'd have to leave; the minutes chase me instead. It amazes me how time flies so fast and how it's not enough.

It feels good to be much appreciated... and umm well-compensated. :)

It's only been three days and unlike the last time, I'm definitely staying.
I thank God for this blessing. I need and want to stay here.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

An Answered Prayer

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I call a spade a spade but this time, I promised myself I would keep my mouth shut just yet.

But I just want to thank the Lord for this blessing. I won't let you down! :)
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